The Dad Challenge: The Nurturing Father

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Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4

Fathers are not usually seen as the nurturing ones in a family. When my boy’s got sick, they didn’t want me, they wanted Cheryl.

The Bible, however, tends to […] Continue Reading…

7 Suggestions When the Team is Stalled and Struggling for a Win

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I talk with team leaders every week where the team is struggling and trying to figure out how to succeed again. It could be a pastor, a ministry or non-profit leader, or a businessperson.

I understand. I’ve been the leader of teams in situations like this many times. Every […] Continue Reading…

7 Simple Leadership Tips Which Could Help Every Pastor and Leader

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I have a heart for leaders. Especially church leaders. I’d love to help others learn from my mistakes. In fact, this is a huge motivation for this blog and a lot of my ministry.

With this in mind, I want to share a few things I’ve learned over the years. […] Continue Reading…

5 Reasons This Pastor Attends Church While on Vacation

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Pastor and ministry leader, as you consider your vacation this year, I want to encourage you to find a church wherever you are and visit.

I understand why you may not. Church is your “job”. You’re on vacation. It’s a break from “work” by definition.

One of the first things […] Continue Reading…

7 Things Pastor Tell Me Kept Them from Leading Well

Around a barrier business concept as a red dart solving an obstacle problem by averting a wall and hitting the target as a success metaphor for agility and dexterity in achieving your goal.

In my talks with pastors and ministry leaders, I hear some repeated themes. One common theme is they have a story of a failed leadership experience. Their first church. The church experience that went bad. Or, many times their current ministry and the reason for our conversation.

When they […] Continue Reading…

The Best Routes in Life Find You Dodging Geese Poop

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Some of my favorite trips or vacations are where I get to take a long run. Through parks, subdivisions, and back roads. But, my favorite runs always involve water – along a river, lake or ocean. I have run in some incredible places.

Philadelphia, Chicago, Minneapolis, Washington, DC., Madison, […] Continue Reading…

10 Strong Opinions I Have About Meetings

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I have lots of meetings in my world. Over the years of business, non-profit leadership, elected office, and ministry, I’ve probably attended several thousand meetings. Along the way, I’ve developed some strong opinions.

I thought I’d share a few.
Here are 10 strong opinions I have about meetings:
If all the decisions […] Continue Reading…

What Happens When I’m tired – and 7 Remedies

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I have learned over the years – many times when I’m not up to par in my leadership or life – it’s simply because I’m tired. Recognizing this is paramount to maintaining productivity and for preventing burnout.
When I’m tired:
I can be irritable and harder to please

I become irrational about […] Continue Reading…