10 Suggestions for Bi-Vocational Pastors

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One of my sessions at Exponential Conference this week was my friend Artie Davis and I encouraging bi-vocational pastors. The session, called “Flipping Burgers while Planting a Church” was to offer suggestions for those who trying to earn a living outside the church and pastor a church at the same time.

I shared 5 things to do and 5 things not to do. Here are my notes: […] Continue Reading…

7 Ways for a Husband to Encourage His Wife

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I’m not a perfect husband.

I’m not a perfect husband.

I’m not a perfect husband.

I would write that 100 times, but I think you get the message and I’d probably lose most of you at number 17. That’s the average number of times you’ll read the same thing. (Of course, I […] Continue Reading…

7 of the Most Dangerous Leadership Mindsets I’ve Observed

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I’ve seen it so many times.

A leader could be doing everything else right and one flawed mindset can overshadow – jeopardize all the good leadership principles we know.

One constantly repeated action. One trait. One habit. One mindset.

And, sadly, many times it’s not even the person isn’t a good leader […] Continue Reading…

7 Hard Paradigms I Had to Learn to be an Effective Leader

Pastors need to know these.

Manager (businessman, coach, leadership) plan to increase company performance.

One of the hardest parts of leading for me has been the things I’ve had to learn or do which may have been contrary to the way I would have naturally done them – or wanted to do them.

For example, I like to be in control of my surroundings. I […] Continue Reading…

7 Thoughts for Parenting a Young Family During the Presidential Election Season

And other scary times of life.

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Can we just admit this has not been our favorite presedential election season? I’ll admit. I’m one who tends to see the more positive in every scenario and it’s honestly difficult to do this time.

A man with a young children asked me recently how should he and his wife […] Continue Reading…

7 Hints You’re About to Make a Bad Leadership Decision

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Have you ever made a bad decision in leadership?

Of course, we all have. It is actually part of the way we grow as leaders. I’ve made many bad decisions in my leadership.

Thankfully, the longer I lead, the more I have developed some warning signs I’m about to make another. […] Continue Reading…

7 Tips for Healthier Marriage Communication

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Healthy marriages are built on communication. Almost without exception – if you improve communication you improve the marriage. A couple with poor communication will have a difficult time building a successful marriage.

By the way, every marriage could stand to improve in this area.

Here are 7 tips for better […] Continue Reading…