The speed of change is always relative…
I may feel like we are moving at a snail’s pace.
Others may feel we are moving at rocket speed.
The speed of change is relative to…
- Our propensity or aversion to change…
- The degree of comfort we’ve established in what we are doing now…
- Who initiated the change…
- The perceived size of the change…
- The degree of personal risk involved…
- How change is implemented…
- My understanding of or buy-in to the “why” behind the change…
When you hear people talking about how fast or slow things are changing, remember, their response is relative to their individual context.
How fast are things changing in your life right now? Do you wish they were changing faster or slower?
It was cold. Okay, not really, but it was a drastic change from the weather we’d been having. One of the first cold days of the season. I almost opted not to run, but bundled up and hit the road.
Whoa! It was colder feeling than I thought. I was going to give up. For the first mile and a half I intended to turn around and head home.
For some reason…I kept going.
I ran 5 miles. I ran 5 incredible miles. Or at least 3 miles were amazing. It was a great run.
It was a great reminder.
Much of life is that way.
The reason many of us never finish…the reason we don’t realize our dreams…is not because we don’t have them. It’s not even that we didn’t start.
The problem is often that we gave up too soon.
We couldn’t endure the chilly start long enough. We opted too quickly for the warm recliner. We didn’t last the test of time.
The last few miles is usually worth the misery of the first few.
Are you tempted to give up your dream?
Not yet! Keep running. You’re getting warmer.
My friend Sarah Cunningham recently released her new book, The Well Balanced World Changer: A Field Guide for Staying Sane While Doing Good, a few days back. The book has been getting a lot of attention, partially because it is packed full of leadership quotes–the kind you’ve probably seen shared on Facebook or Twitter or Pinterest (here’s the Pinterest site: http://www.pinterest.com/sarahcunning/the-well-balanced-world-changer/).
But rather than pepper you with more leadership material, I thought I’d ask Sarah a few questions that get at the bulk of the content that goes way beyond pithy sayings and memorable illustrations.
Q: I see great quotes shared online all the time, but this book goes way beyond that. Would you tell us how it is set up?
A: Sure thing. The book is a 280 page collection of 2 to 6 page essays that offer sticky insights and wisdom gathered from all different sources. They’re memorable stories; stuff that offers a breath of fresh air and some often much needed recalibration for the leader who is slowly chipping away at a huge vision. On the practical side, the book is broken down into 10 sections–sections like Worth & Success to Desires & Frustrations–that were chosen to address the most common learning curves leaders walk through.
Q: So what about the leadership quotes? There’s a ton of great and rare ones. Obviously you did that intentionally. What’s your vision there?
A: I wanted to begin a collection of online wisdom where other people could add their own advice and wise insights to the hashtag #worldchangerbook. And I thought a good way to get started would be to comb the work of some of the most inspiring leaders from history and the faith and pull out some great quotes that would be worth passing along.
Q: Tell me about the reader who is going to love this book. Who is it perfect for?
A: The book is perfect for any leader who has ambitiously taken on some sort of mammoth goal. Maybe they are trying to start a new faith community or grow a mega-church, maybe they’re trying to start a non-profit or end some sort of world social issue. But whatever they are locked in on is hard and success doesn’t come overnight. And they chip away at their vision day in and day out, pouring everything they have into it, and some days it feels like even though they are pouring everything they have into it, they are barely making a dent.
The book is for that person and for that moment.
It’d be a liferaft especially for young leaders fresh out of college or the Peace Corps or for people in any stage of life who are just undertaking some new cause or ministry. It would also be a lifeline to someone on the verge of quitting.
Q: I know you’ve had the chance to write a few books and also to help produce some pretty notable Christian events. Is that what inspires the content?
A: I have been blessed, no doubt, to be part of some amazing projects and to learn from some incredible people. But honestly, no, most of the content comes from people I’ve known in ordinary life. A few of the insights come from my dad, who has planted a few churches out in rural Michigan. A few come from various local faith leaders who are slaving away at good things without the benefit of a big stage or national applause. This is like…the cream of the most genuine and honorable people of faith I know. It’s like putting everyone’s grandma and grandpa in a room and letting them talk and writing it down.
Q: Is it a book people can implement to become more balanced?
A: Well yes and no. It’s not a how-to and it’s not five-steps-to-becoming-balanced.
It comes out of a vulnerable but beautiful stage in my life when I walked through disillusionment and burnout with leading faith based efforts. During that time, I was embarrassingly under-equipped to walk through disappointments and find my footing. It took me way longer than it should have to get back on track and keep investing in faith and in good. At several points along the way, I came into new awareness (usually by mistake or through the graciousness of a veteran leader who shared advice with me) and I was able to grab onto a new principle that helped add health to my leadership habits and rhythms. Often times, I would think, “Why didn’t someone tell me this before?”
Slowly, I started to realize that even though hardships continued to arise, I was able to face them with more strength and resilience. That I could more quickly re-frame my expectations or more wisely boundary the way I invested my emotion and energy.
Along the way, I decided to start collecting those insights that I wished I had grabbed onto earlier so I could pass them onto other leaders who might be looking for them and not really even know it. Most of us have mentors, but we’re not always able to get together with them regularly and we’re not always even sure what questions to ask them to get the information we need. This book is like a paperback mentor.
I wouldn’t say you’d be fully well balanced after reading it, because if you are, you’re way ahead of me. But I will tell you this: I’m better balanced today than I was five years ago. And I think I’m on track to be more balanced five years from now than I am today. If you want to journey toward ongoing balance, if you want to find balance, and figure out how to readjust and find it again when your circumstances or goals change, I think this book will be like oxygen. That’s how the insights always felt to me.
The Well Balanced World Changer is available on Amazon and wherever books are sold. You can also find great shareable content on this book’s Pinterest page or on Sarah’s website at http://www.sarahcunningham.org.
Jeff Henderson was one of my favorite speakers at this year’s Catalyst Conference. His talk was on what non-profits can learn from for profits. One reason I identify with Jeff is because of his background in the business world.
Here are a few thoughts Jeff shared:
- The solutions non profits are trying to provide aren’t keeping up with the problems they are trying to solve. (For example, there are lots of ministries working with homelessness, doing good work, yet homelessness remains the same percent as it did a decade ago.)
- Non profits think like non profits.
- The deeper systemic issues are not being addressed.
- The rule books are different in non-profits.
- For profits put the best people on the front lines. They find the very best and put them to work.
- Non profits sacrifice their best talent and put them on their boards, because they can’t or won’t pay them enough to work on the front lines.
- Talents, system and strategies matter.
- We pay a corporate executive that makes sugar water more than someone who is trying to cure the world of AIDS.
- Charitable giving in US has remained at 2% of GDP since 1970.
- Finances handcuff non-profits.
- The number of organizations crossing the $50 million budget. 46,000 for profits. 144 for non-profits.
- If we increased giving by 1%, it would generate $150 billion for causes.
- Excellence matters. Excellent people. Visions. Systems. Strategies.
- The common pushback. “Sounds like you’re taking God out of the equation.” At what point did we begin to think excellence is offensive to God?
- If we’re not careful we can spiritualize laziness. (As we “wait on God”)
How to be as wise as serpents and gentle as a dove as non-profits:
1. Keep your character several steps ahead of your talent.
Walking with humility and confidence is a beautiful thing.
2. Ask more questions.
What’s it like to be on the other side of me?
What would we do if we had no money?
Here’s what we are trying to do…will you help me?
(Told story of getting a near $50,000 bill paid for a church plant simply by asking this question.)
3. Listen more than you talk.
To God and others.
Great talk Jeff. Thanks for the wisdom.
I’ve added a supplement to this post with “4 Things For Profits Can Learn from Non-Profits“.
This is part 2. Read Part 1 HERE.
I’ve noticed we confuse a lot of words in leadership. They seem related, and are often used interchangeably, but they are very different.
Here are 5 words we often confuse:
Idea with initiative – Ideas are many. Actually working to make an idea a reality. Rare.
Leadership with management – Leading involves taking people somewhere, often into an unknown, where they may not go otherwise. It involves facing risk to achieve a vision, where the path to attain it is many times unclear. Managing involves helping achieve and maintain a known, predetermined vision, by implementing systems and procedures to effectively move people forward. Leaders thrive in tension and challenge. Managers thrive in details and structure. Both are needed, but very different.
Intentional with conventional – Okay, this might be a stretch in words, but the thought behind it is not. Intentional means we are doing things in the best way to get the job done…in the current context…with the current people…in the current setting. Conventional means we do the same things we’ve always done and hope progress continues. Both may be working towards a worthy vision, but one lasts for a season…the other lasts longer…much longer. We may not even use the words…but we certainly confuse the actions.
Change with progression – Progression is a form a change. Everything changes. People get older. There’s a change. Buildings wear out over time. That’s a change. Ignoring change is an impossibility. But, it’s one thing to let things progress naturally over time, and it’s another to make intentional changes for the good of the organization. Letting things progress is easy. Making intentional change…that’s hard work, but necessary if you want to continue to grow and remain healthy.
Promise with principle – A promise means it’s going to happen…as promised. A principle means this will generally work as stated, under normal conditions, provided the described conditions are met. Living as if a principle is a promise will make you very disappointed when conditions weren’t in place for the principle to perform like a promise. (I promise. In principle.)
I realize all of these could be blog posts of their own. I have expanded on some of them previously. Which would you like me to expand upon?
Add to this post. Who knows…maybe there is a part three? Can you think of any other words we confuse?