When They No Longer Need You (And 4 ways to prepare)
It’s one of the hardest things to do, but…
One day, if you’ve done your job well…
It will be time to get out of the way and let them grow.
It hurts…
Just being honest.
A part of you wants them to need you forever.
It could be as a parent…
Or as a leader…
Or as a pastor…
They may still “need you”…but not like they once did. They’ve grown. They’ve changed. You’ve changed. Things aren’t the same. You did your job. Now it’s their turn. That’s what disciple-making is all about. Raising up new disciple-makers.
When they are ready to fly solo…
Release them to God’s care…
Here are 4 things you can do to prepare them for the release:
Let them know – Assure them they have what it takes to do all God calls them to do.
Let them grow – Give them ample opportunities to learn new things along the way; whether from you or from others.
Let them sow - Allow them freedom to exhibit their talents and abilities under your guidance.
Let them go - Again, it’s the hardest part, but when it’s time release them. You’ve done your job.
Good job disciple-maker.
It won’t be easy. You’ll have to discipline yourself, but…
It’s the right thing to do.
It’s a quality all great leaders, parents, pastors…have in common. It’s part of doing our job well.
Have you had to let go?
Was it difficult for you?
