Comments on: Describe Your Relationship With Your Father http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html The Blog of Leader, Pastor, and Church Planter Ron Edmondson Sun, 12 Feb 2012 12:24:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: ronedmondson http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-24934 ronedmondson Mon, 21 Nov 2011 00:31:03 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-24934 Love it. Love it.

]]> By: @willadair http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-24933 @willadair Mon, 21 Nov 2011 00:27:52 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-24933 Reconciled. Perfect love covers a multitude of sins. Thankfully God is the source of perfect love, makes all the difference. Reconciled. Perfect love covers a multitude of sins. Thankfully God is the source of perfect love, makes all the difference.

]]> By: ronedmondson http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-23237 ronedmondson Tue, 20 Sep 2011 12:55:04 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-23237 Will, I do believe God is "such a good person". But I'm okay with differences of opinion. Will, I do believe God is “such a good person”. But I'm okay with differences of opinion.

]]> By: will http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-23236 will Tue, 20 Sep 2011 11:50:15 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-23236 You are welcome. What are your thoughts on it regardless of what u may think of me. i am interested You are welcome. What are your thoughts on it regardless of what u may think of me. i am interested

]]> By: ronedmondson http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-23220 ronedmondson Mon, 19 Sep 2011 12:27:04 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-23220 Thanks for your thoughts Thanks for your thoughts

]]> By: will http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-23219 will Mon, 19 Sep 2011 12:19:35 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-23219 U guys u guys this is not about GOD. And this is why, If god was such a good person and so smart etc ( im not saying there is no GOD) this is what he would say. Its simple. Be a good person, and any problem there is you can fix it by confunting it and letting everything out. Once you do that ull either be ridiculed or accepted in what ever the situation might be BUT regardless of the result you will feel a feeling of satisfaction and content knowing that u faced that challenge and you did everything possible no matter the outcome. That is what it is all about U guys u guys this is not about GOD. And this is why, If god was such a good person and so smart etc ( im not saying there is no GOD) this is what he would say. Its simple. Be a good person, and any problem there is you can fix it by confunting it and letting everything out. Once you do that ull either be ridiculed or accepted in what ever the situation might be BUT regardless of the result you will feel a feeling of satisfaction and content knowing that u faced that challenge and you did everything possible no matter the outcome. That is what it is all about

]]> By: will http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-23218 will Mon, 19 Sep 2011 12:13:33 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-23218 That is ridiculous Ronedemondson. Proclaiming god will fix it is an unrealistic one. U Denisharian have to fix it. Im 22 years old and this is going to be the best piece of advice you have ever got. If u want your relationship with ur dad to be better, one that makes you happy every day, then you still love your dad. This is the critical question, DOES your dad love you? as in does he care for you more than anything else? If he does this is what you need to do. You have to sit him down, just you and him, crack a bottle of red and tell him everything. Tell him you love him, tell him what your relationship is like between you guys, speak the unspoken truth and tell him how it make you feel and everyone else. Tell him what you want is to have a fantastic reltaionship with him more than anything. You have to get him to fully open up and at the same time you have to as well. once ppl fully open up to other it is at that moment you really know that person. You have to be prepared for 2 things. Either he will see how important this is and realize what you mean to him and what he means to you and ull build a beautiful realtionship. (Dont let anyone tell you someones to old to change their ways, if that individual is smart enough and realizes that magnitude of the situdation they will change) OR He wont listen to you and shun it off. At that stage you have to accept that yes he is ur father and that is it. Your feelings for him are somewhat neutral, BECAUSE if u let your self get tied up in the emotions of a relationship that never quite get there then you will always carry a burden of 'something that could have been". U will need to carry on your own life and concentrate on the things that matter, UR NEW LIFE. ur family ur kids ur friends etc. all the best to you, im about to do what i have just told u to do. Let me know how you go That is ridiculous Ronedemondson. Proclaiming god will fix it is an unrealistic one. U Denisharian have to fix it. Im 22 years old and this is going to be the best piece of advice you have ever got. If u want your relationship with ur dad to be better, one that makes you happy every day, then you still love your dad. This is the critical question, DOES your dad love you? as in does he care for you more than anything else? If he does this is what you need to do.

You have to sit him down, just you and him, crack a bottle of red and tell him everything. Tell him you love him, tell him what your relationship is like between you guys, speak the unspoken truth and tell him how it make you feel and everyone else. Tell him what you want is to have a fantastic reltaionship with him more than anything. You have to get him to fully open up and at the same time you have to as well. once ppl fully open up to other it is at that moment you really know that person.

You have to be prepared for 2 things. Either he will see how important this is and realize what you mean to him and what he means to you and ull build a beautiful realtionship. (Dont let anyone tell you someones to old to change their ways, if that individual is smart enough and realizes that magnitude of the situdation they will change)

OR

He wont listen to you and shun it off.
At that stage you have to accept that yes he is ur father and that is it. Your feelings for him are somewhat neutral, BECAUSE if u let your self get tied up in the emotions of a relationship that never quite get there then you will always carry a burden of 'something that could have been". U will need to carry on your own life and concentrate on the things that matter, UR NEW LIFE. ur family ur kids ur friends etc.

all the best to you, im about to do what i have just told u to do.
Let me know how you go

]]> By: ronedmondson http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-10395 ronedmondson Thu, 29 Jul 2010 17:54:11 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-10395 That's a great story. Thank you for sharing. That's a great story. Thank you for sharing.

]]> By: Toni http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-10383 Toni Thu, 29 Jul 2010 04:12:09 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-10383 God has just uprooted somethings in my life concerning my eathly father. He's wasn't really in my life as a child. But I remember in the fifth grade I had to create a family tree. It brought about shame and rejection because I couldn't call him and ask. tyed to keep me hidden from his wife and kids. Only to find out she knew of me all alone. But now he wants a relationship but I tend to push away. As an effect though out my life Ibuit a wall of and becaming controlling over who I let love me. His absence in my life has caused to to do the same with my heavenly father. I will give him some of me but not all of me. This rejection has hindered me from really knowing that my Heavenly father is a loving, caring, warm, affectionate, wants the best for u kind of father and he will never leave nor forsake me. God has just uprooted somethings in my life concerning my eathly father. He's wasn't really in my life as a child. But I remember in the fifth grade I had to create a family tree. It brought about shame and rejection because I couldn't call him and ask. tyed to keep me hidden from his wife and kids. Only to find out she knew of me all alone. But now he wants a relationship but I tend to push away. As an effect though out my life Ibuit a wall of and becaming controlling over who I let love me. His absence in my life has caused to to do the same with my heavenly father. I will give him some of me but not all of me. This rejection has hindered me from really knowing that my Heavenly father is a loving, caring, warm, affectionate, wants the best for u kind of father and he will never leave nor forsake me.

]]> By: Ron Edmondson http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/01/describe-your-relationship-with-your-father.html#comment-8609 Ron Edmondson Sat, 22 May 2010 18:19:19 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/?p=5133#comment-8609 Thanks for sharing your story Theresa Thanks for sharing your story Theresa

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