How My Family Has Helped Shaped Me
I was reflecting this week about how much my family has shaped the person that I am today. Without them, I would not be near as effective in ministry.
Here’s what I mean:
Cheryl: (My wife)
- Models patience for me. (I haven’t copied exactly, but it’s a work-in-process)
- Keeps me grounded in life. (Her greatest joy in life is being with me and the boys.)
- Gives me a consistent goal in life. (I want nothing more than for her to be happy.)
- Teaches me to be a kinder, gentler person. (Our church should be glad!)
Jeremy: (My 20 year old son)
- Models forgiveness for me. (He is the most forgiving person I know)
- Encourages me to slow down and enjoy the moment (He’s a strong P in Myers-Briggs language)
- Shapes an “it’s okay” attitude in my heart. (He never seems to stress)
- Opens me up to deeper conversations. (He’s a talker and a tremendous relationship builder.)
Nate: (My 17 year old son)
- Models reality for me. (He sees things more in black and white)
- Holds me accountable (Nate can be my biggest critic, but he’s usually right!)
- Stretches my innovation. (Nate is a creative thinker. He is always challenging status-quo)
- Keeps me light-hearted (No one makes me laugh more than Nate!)
Has your family shaped you?
