I was reflecting this week about how much my family has shaped the person that I am today.  Without them, I would not be near as effective in ministry.

Here’s what I mean:

Cheryl:  (My wife)

• Models patience for me.  (I haven’t copied exactly, but it’s a work-in-process)
• Keeps me grounded in life.  (Her greatest joy in life is being with me and the boys.)
• Gives me a consistent goal in life. (I want nothing more than for her to be happy.)
• Teaches me to be a kinder, gentler person.  (Our church should be glad!)

Jeremy: (My 20 year old son)

• Models forgiveness for me.  (He is the most forgiving person I know)
• Encourages me to slow down and enjoy the moment (He’s a strong P in Myers-Briggs language)
• Shapes an “it’s okay” attitude in my heart.  (He never seems to stress)
• Opens me up to deeper conversations.  (He’s a talker and a tremendous relationship builder.)

Nate: (My 17 year old son)

• Models reality for me.  (He sees things more in black and white)
• Holds me accountable (Nate can be my biggest critic, but he’s usually right!)
• Stretches my innovation.  (Nate is a creative thinker.  He is always challenging status-quo)
• Keeps me light-hearted (No one makes me laugh more than Nate!)

Has your family shaped you?

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